How to help your immature & unmotivated teenage daughter?

1. Acknowledge and validate their feelings

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2. Encourage open communication

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3. Focus on the positives and strength

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4. Set achievable goals together

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5. Create structure and routine

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6. Allow them to make mistakes and learn from them

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7. Model self-motivation and responsibility

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8. Celebrate small successes and progre

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9. Seek support from a therapist or counselor

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10. Don't give up on your teen, stay involved and supportive

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