5 Things Not to Do When Your Child Throws a Tantrum

When your child throws a tantrum, it can be difficult to know how to respond.

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Here are a 5 things not to do when your child throws a tantrum.

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1. Do not give in to their demands.

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2. Physical discipline, such as spanking or hitting, is not an effective way to deal with tantrums.

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3. Do not ignore the tantrum

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4. Do not engage in a power struggle

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5. Do not blame or shame your child

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Instead of these unhelpful approaches, it's important to stay calm and respond in a way that helps your child feel heard and validated .

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