Grandparents As Sitters - Guidelines To Avoid Conflict

1. Discuss with your parents or in-laws what you expect from them as babysitters.

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2. Discuss with the grandparents the rules around technology use and agree on what is appropriate.

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3. Grandparents may raise your kids differently from how you would, but their intentions are always good. Let's show gratitude to them.

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4. Provide grandparents with written instructions on the kids' daily schedule, diet, and routines.

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5. Please make sure you inform the grandparents of these changes and be willing to adjust when necessary.

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6. Keep the best interests of the children in mind at all times.

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7. Address any issues promptly and respectfully

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8. Always pursuing harmony among the three generations.

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Grandparents as sitters can be a boon for working parents, but it's important to establish clear communication, respect, and flexibility.

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