10 Tips to Successfully Co-parent

Jun 08, 2023 — balmukund —

1. Co-parents should focus on child-centered decision making and work as a team.

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2. Healing and moving on from the past is crucial for successful co-parenting.

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3. Remember the positive aspects of your ex and transform the relationship into a business-like arrangement if necessary.

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4. Effective communication is key, and arguments should be kept away from the children.

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5. Show flexibility in scheduling and be accessible to your co-parent.

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6. Fairness doesn't always mean equality; prioritize your child's needs and interests.

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7. Avoid speaking negatively about your ex in front of your children to maintain respect and self-worth.

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8. Remember important dates and holidays to create a sense of family for your child.

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9. Adult decisions should be kept separate from children, avoiding overburdening them with choices.

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10. Seek support from trusted individuals or resources during challenging times, such as friends, support groups, or the CoParenter App.

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How to create a successful routine for your family

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