How to Talk to Children So That The Child Listens to You

Use clear and simple language that is appropriate for the child's age and understanding. 

Give the child your full attention

Encourage open communication by asking questions and avoiding lecturing. 

Validate the child's feelings and show empathy

Use positive reinforcement and praise to encourage desired behavior.

Set clear and consistent boundaries and expectations

Avoid distractions and minimize background noise when speaking to the child.

Avoid criticism and instead offer specific and constructive feedback. 

Lead by example and model the communication skills you want to see in the child.

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